This is such harsh advice until you realize it’s the truth
Okay, but this is bullshit though. The world is a cruel and arbitrary place. Sometimes things in the world happen, and it’s NOT your fault. it’s random and arbitrary and the worst ever because there is nothing you can do and nothing you should have done. You’re not your own problem or your own solution if you have a chronic or terminal disease, or if someone in your family has died, or if someone breaks into your house and takes all your things, or if a forest fire burns down your town, or any other number of completely random events. And this kind of thinking completely trivializes the very real struggles of people whose lives have gone to shit even though they did everything within their power to make things work. Honestly, sometimes it is the world’s fault. And it’s okay to be angry and sad and resentful about that.
Obviously I’ve seen the movie and I know the context of it, but this gif is floating around with people being like “OMG SO DEEP”, and it’s important to realize that this is NOT a healthy way to view tragedies in life, big or small.